Abstract The explosive growth in Internet use by MSM to find sexual partners has been noted in the research literature. Experiences of rejection and a perceived hierarchy of value in the sexual market based on race had definite costs for these MSM using these online sites. Furthermore, the private and solitary nature of seeking partners online meant that there was little to Looking for new friends normal ppl the corrosive aspects of those negative experiences.
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These online dynamics have implications for the power balance in Internet-mediated sexual liaisons, including sexual decision-making and sexual risk. Introduction Use of the Internet as a fast and efficient means Real sex ads accessing sexual partners has grown in popularity among men who have sex with men MSMand has been linked with of sexual partners, sexual risk Real sex ads, and sexually-transmitted diseases Benotsch et al.
Websites specific to MSM have emerged, catering to sexual connections between men in given geographic regions. Some see this increasing use of the Internet as having transformed the norms of gay male socialization and sexual pursuit Bolding et al.
However, it also creates a milieu in which personal characteristics become commodities with definable market values. Understanding the impact this may have on MSM of color, Parnamirim amateur swingers and indirectly affecting partner selection processes, is important to the comprehension of their sexual networks and decision-making.
Certain niche or specialty sites exist to facilitate connections between men who do not fit stereotypic ideals of the gay community -- e. The gay community may provide supportive social networks Clean Charleston male nsa some MSM that negate the impact of homophobia and prejudices of mainstream U. Sexual hook-ups are facilitated by two general formats online, which have their points of overlap: personal and chat-rooms specific to MSM.
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Websites with online allow men to rapidly post particulars of themselves and desired sexual encounters, and allow others to review Older blonde woman at Lincoln lake s of such personals rapidly. Interested parties contact one another via or instant messaging [IM] on member-based sites if both are onlinewhich can then lead to a hook-up if mutually agreeable.
If potentially interested in another person in the chat room, an individual can access their profile to readily see if there are points of convergence between attributes and interests of both parties.
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This research focuses on the online Real sex ads of men with respect to the impact of posted personal and profiles -- the Internet forum used by most men in our sample for sexual connections. While some prior Kensington man for bbw fantasy has explored the online experiences of MSM of color, these studies have been far more limited in scope, both with respect to data collection and to exploration of the impact of the racialized nature of this virtual environment.
Poon and colleagues conducted a qualitative exploration Sexy pic of Lisnaskea women the online experiences of Asian primarily Chinese MSM in Toronto, but these were men who specifically used Internet chatrooms, were not interviewed face-to-face, and were primarily describing their reasons for such use with consideration of implications for HIV prevention.
Our research data come from a series of group and individual qualitative interviews that explored the sexual and social relationships of MSM of color, and both race-based and heterosexist-based experiences of discrimination and exclusion. The Internet-specific occurrences they reported emerged out of a discussion of their broader social and sexual relationships with other MSM.
The relatively unstructured nature of these interviews provided an opportunity for these MSM of color to provide in-depth s of the subjective impact of Internet-based racism and racialized sexual preferences.
The consistency in which the themes described in our findings unfold across these interviews provides a forceful impression of the felt realities of these MSM. Methods De Overview We conducted a two-part qualitative study in Los Angeles as part of the initial developmental process for a larger quantitative study examining the impact of social contexts influencing sexual risk behavior for African American, Latino, and API MSM. In particular, we were interested in examining racism and discrimination within the mainstream gay male community, and within-group social pressures and supports.
The men in both qualitative samples were recruited with the aid of a professional marketing firm, by publicizing the study online e. We began with a series of focus groups to elicit broader themes for the subgroups under study, and followed this by individual in-depth interviews informed by the focus group data.
The focus group moderator had an extensive background in group facilitation, as well as many years of experience working on MSM-specific research projects. The individual interviews utilized semi-structured open-ended questionnaires, and were conducted by two of the study investigators. All group and individual interviews were audio-recorded and transcribed.
Focus groups were 2 hours in length and held in specially deed rooms for such groups in the offices Beautiful ladies wants hot sex Macomb a professional Women wants hot sex Brasstown North Carolina firm.
Participants Focus Group Sample In July and August of6 focus groups were held with men who a were between 18 and 50 years old, b reported having sex with other men within the past 6 months, c reported having had a new male sexual partner in the past 12 months, d were African American, API, or Latino, and e Lonely lady looking hot sex DuBois in Los Angeles County.
We kept the upper age limit at 50 years to ensure greater homogeneity to group membership and participant experiences, as these commonalities may facilitate communication flow Brown, As we were interested in respondents' experiences in seeking out and finding new sexual and dating partners, our inclusion criteria identified minimal prerequisites that we felt would identify those sexually active and meeting new men for sex.
Mean age was In-depth Individual Interview Sample Between December and Augustwe conducted 35 individual in-depth interviews with men who reported sex with other men in the prior 6 months, lived in the Los Angeles area, 56340 mature womens cyber sex were African American, Latino, or API.
Sixteen men were 18 to 29 Lady looking nsa WI Hubertus 53033 old; 19 men were 30 years or older. There was no upper limit on age in these interviews.
The age range was 20 to 60 years, with a mean age of Among these men, one of the 11 Insert catchy free sex women here men was foreign-born, as were 9 of the 12 API men; the African American respondents were all born in the United States.
Research Data Development of Focus Group Guide The focus group guide was defined in broad strokes determined by the need to explore issues and dynamics critical to our subsequent research, as well as to inform the development of new quantitative measures. Development of In-depth Individual Interview Guide The individual interviews were meant to expand upon topics examined in the focus groups. Thus, this mode of data collection allowed for in-depth discussion of experiences in meeting sexual and dating partners, general partner selection preferences, the influence of one's social network, experiences of and the impact of discrimination and racism, personal coping strategies, and sexual risk practices.
After the first 10 interviews, 3 months Older swingers ready for the one to settle down spent reviewing transcripts, developing ideas about the initial Real sex ads, and refining our interview guide, allowing for an iterative process of exploration of the research topics see Frankel, Analysis of Qualitative Real sex ads The analysis of both focus group data and individual interview data followed Hot girls North Miami Beach Florida similar course, with the coding of individual interviews building upon the work done on focus group transcripts.
A multi-disciplinary team of investigators initially read through transcripts together to generate descriptive for coding that incorporated both Real sex ads topic areas defined by the interview outlines and the constructs that emerged from the text.
Once investigators had agreed upon an initial set of text codes, transcripts were divided among the investigators for coding. All transcripts were double-coded and the discussed in meetings of coders until consensus was achieved.
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This iterative process led to a continual refinement of constructs and the definition of new codes for themes. Use of the Internet for partner selection was common for our respondents, especially among younger men.
They described use of a variety of internet sites targeting MSM, ranging from those in which one simply posted seeking other men e. Among the key considerations for our sample common to the research literature Real sex ads a ready access to particularized group of men defined by Hot mom sell sex factors as demographic characteristics, geographic location, and preferred sexual behaviors, and b the ability to present and discuss their preferences frankly in relative anonymity.
These sites also gave men the ability to partition their sexual lives from their social lives sometimes a reflection of their own openness about their sexuality in general, other times simply a matter of avoiding judgments or reactions from other MSM. For me a little bit different 'cause Real sex ads am bisexual so, you know … Ladies looking hot sex Huntington Bay if I'm in a mood to like go online and actually have sex [with men] I'll go online and I can find somebody and for me it's just not -- I'm not looking for any type of relationship, at all, … it is, is just like for the moment.
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It's an easier form of communication 'cause when I look at the way it's written. Friends, it's all social, you have to see them face to face. So you know, there's a real fear of like basically someone's reaction towards you or acceptance of you.
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Filipino, 28 years old However, that ease of initiating contact with other men and meeting for casual sex was something about which men reported some ambivalence: Just too easy. Like if you can, if it's really needed and you want to get somebody in ten minutes, Real sex ads it can happen. But if you, if it's that easy to get them, then I'd be suspicious. African American, 24 years old Like you can conversate [sic] with them but you don't conversate, 'cause you don't conversate when you want to have sex with.
I don't know, that's how I feel.
That's why you're on. But there's almost a sense that you're devaluing human life or the human experience in a way, 'cause there's no foreplay. African American, 25 years old The ways in which online communication facilitates both contact with other MSM and the ability to terminate such connections with impunity comes Beautiful lady want dating Grand Island Nebraska into Horny black girl in Leipzig in the ways in which race and preferences are discussed.
The anonymity of the Internet also meant that men could express blatantly racist comments in exchanges of messages and be shielded from any real-time interpersonal or social consequences. I think that some of the racial, like the racial differences are more obvious and more expressed.
Everything is a lot cruder so there's no subtlety or nuance. Mexican, 23 years old However, when I'm online it's a constant reminder in terms of … the details of the ad and the specifics. That's me. It's constantly in your face.
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We'd trade pictures, and I don't think I look that Asian, but to some people they're real sticklers for it.
They can tell I'm not completely Caucasian. And the moment they find out that you're Black and you consider yourself Black, suddenly everything changes.
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Several respondents argued against construing racially-based preferences as necessarily racist, noting that individuals tended to identify sexual partner preferences across a range of characteristics on the Internet. I don't think it's racism, necessarily. You Wives looking for sex Horrabridge, it's people's preferences.
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The guy that wants to Real sex ads up with you isn't showing any interest in just any Latin guy, he's picking you. In addition, the online experience differed from in-person exchanges with respect to the level of exposure in sheer s to other MSM's racialized exclusionary criteria or preferences.
Sorry, no Blacks, you know, or no Asians. African American, 30 years old I will notice that most other ethnicities are looking for white guys, even Asians are looking for white guys. So it may be a generalization, but I've seen that all.
Filipino, 25 years old The online environment did not facilitate responses Bentley-KS orgy threesome such stereotyping and potentially discriminatory attitudes that might prove otherwise effective or reinforce a sense of power elsewhere: attempting to challenge such stereotypes, or choosing to socialize selectively in environments where one would not encounter such attitudes.
I think it's been so many -- I mean, you just can't get like upset and shaking our fist at the computer screen and -- you know. You just move on and it's not even worth it. There are other people and what can you do?
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